Montblancer, 43

Looking for:
a best-friend, perfect-partner, passionate-lover, exercise-buddy, cooking-companion, and something-special extraordinaire!

Will settle for in the interim:
a good conversation, someone to see a movie/go out to eat with, a chill moment at the park or anywhere else for that matter, someone to enjoy my cooking and watch a little Netflix with, a fourth wheel so I am not relegated to being the third: ), someone to miss a little when they are away: )

I'll tell you a little about my past to help you predict the future: )
I was raised mostly by my mom, an older sister, 3 younger sisters, and yes even my little brother made his stamp. Family is important to me but a smaller version is more my style.

Physically I like a girl that takes care of herself but not looking for perfection by any stretch. A good smile, great personality, confidence, ability to find enjoyment in a variety of situations, loyalty, and being genuinely sweet and caring are far more important to me both to receive and to give. I have a tendency to look out for my significant other over myself, so a girl that will look out for me too is important.

Career:
I have a Job where, for the first time in my life, I am paid for how much I know and how well I perform and not for clocking in and clocking out. Mostly this means that I can allow for a good work life balance, but about 8 weeks out of the year I have to pick up the pace and chug along at a prodigious rate. I like the quality of life my job affords and need someone that can realize that to play hard sometimes you have to work hard: )

A great date for me would involve me preparing a meal over a good conversation maybe a glass of wine and sitting out on the balcony looking at the city. I like to plan dates but also enjoy an equal partner, so I'll guess but don't mind being told: )