Lesoleil, 66

It's not the thrill of dating that I want.... ...it is the sense of belonging with someone that I desire. Being with the right man brings the best out in me. I want to be a part of something bigger than I can be on my own. I'd much rather have a BF than a date. No judgment about those I am not a match with, it's just that sometimes two great people would just not be great together.

I do not want a man not attracted to me on multiple levels, to lead me on. I do not want a man, who is tired of being lonely, to toy with my affections. I do not lie to men in order to get what I want. I do not play dishonest games, mess with tender hearts. Plain and simple, it is about integrity. It diminishes one's integrity to settle. I want someone I can be comfortable with, who is comfortable with me. A clever man of depth, character and beauty inside and out, with a healthy mind and body, financially secured, who has everything he wants, except a partner for life. Someone I can be proud to be with. A man proud to be with me. The two of us just downright crazy about each other. The people who settle are the ones who end up unhappy and creating drama. Acceptance is a key to happiness. I accept people for who they are, who they choose to be. I accept a situation for what it is. I accept that not every man is attracted to me. I accept the limitations in my own life, and I choose to expand those limitations where I can. I believe that positive energy attracts positive outcomes. I choose to do what it takes to stay fit and healthy. Healthy nutrition is a big factor for me and I probably won't do well with someone who loves exclusively Southern food, eats a lot of meat or thinks that some veggies here and there is eating healthy. I am an early morning bird and seek the same. I've had my experiences with night owls and it doesn't work out. There are so many hours that we can't spend together when we have opposite sleeping schedules. I am ready for an adventure in intimacy with a truly happy man. Live and let live