Fanario, 57

I am a very young 41 looking for my next life partner to share fun, adventure and passion with while also living in a peaceful, respectful and supportive relationship.

I am recently separated and filing for divorce, but maintain a strong friendship with my ex-wife as we co-parent our 2 sons, ages 3 1/2 and infant. My ex and I have decided that we are great friends and parents, but we are not good as lovers. I'm looking for a woman who will love me completely and also support me and join me in parenting my sons. I would be open to having kids with you if you wanted to too.

I love live music and dancing at shows and music festivals and plan to always have that in my life. The Grateful Dead and String Cheese are my favorite bands, although Yonder Mountain String Band, Hot Buttered Rum, ALO and New Monsoon are great newer bands. I just went to my first Burning Man and had a blast! If you've never been, I'd love to take you. If you have, let's go together next year.

I am an avid environmentalist and entrepreneur. I run my own green business that requires a lot of my energy. I have the energy to do it, but would love your support and interest in what I'm doing at the end of the day.

You should have passions and dreams and the drive to fulfill your desires on your own. I would love to support you in your career too and make you dinner and give you foot massages at the end of a long work day.

We should have lots in common, but also lots to teach each other. I love to learn and so should you.

We should love S-- and physical affection, and find true joy in giving each other pleasure, even if just cuddling and kissing and lovingly touching each other.

Finally, we need to both be motivated to stay healthy and in shape. I've done triathlons before, but we don't need to get that crazy. Bike rides around the city or up in the Marin headlands are great fun. It's so important to stay healthy and active, especially with 2 boys growing up to keep up with.