romance in a cold world

[vegakata (deleted)]

Watching people, couples I often feel skepticism.Like in the huge centers offering goods, there is a diversity of men, women, girls and boys- the common is: everybody make the other feel there are more and better possibilities..In this way I cannot see any loyality, sincerity. Especially this technocrat age will be tempting the people...!
What is the root of it?

The deep, very deep insecurity..the weak and loose belief in oneself- the folks may feel that it is just the parner, the outside world will give them satisfation about themselves.
Where is a mature, stabile personality who dare take on the beloved one..
In this sense the majority of men and women are suffering- their relation is overly terminated, filled of suspection, fear of losing etc.
The whole phenomen tends to be illusional matter.

However, I do believe in honest and true life-long ties..Just it is very-very rare.
Yet it is wroth wainting and not exchanging the values to trifles! What do you think about it? :D

vegakata- Cathy

[tinkerbell82 (deleted)]

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I agree that many people want a relationship for what it can give them, because they are looking for a partner who will "fix" them.
I can think of many people who entered into relationships or even had children in order to fill some personal problem: lack of self-esteem, loneliness, fear, etc. It's sad and very disappointing if you are involved in a situation like this.
But not everyone's desperately searching for someone to fill some black hole in their psyche... There are great people out there who are worthwhile, sincere, compassionate-- the kind of people who SHARE their life with you, who don't impose it on you or try to take what you have to fill their own needs.
So, yes, I think it's always worth waiting and holding out for the right person, Cathy.

xoxo
Belle

[rb1979]

`^ great response
and i agree with it

[vegancharles (deleted)]

Any relationship that is formed on the basis of shallow and superficial reasons is doomed from the start. I also believe that the old adage which says that "opposites attract" is pure garbage.